August 8th, 2011 at 7:29 am
“my sex drive is measured in times per day, not per week. We’re not even using the same scale.”
Do I or other women have sexual thoughts and impulses several times a day? Yes of course. Do I want sex right at that instant? Yes! Do I actually think sex is going to happen, is practical, that often? There’s the difference in scale. Are you seriously expecting that sex will happen every time you have a sexual thought?
” “It takes time for women to ramp up – one gender difference that really does exist.” Not really.” You say not really, and then proceed to make the point, “depending on the stimulus”. I guess I should have put some kind of “YMMV” in front of and at the end of every paragraph, but obviously there are the occasions where he can’t catch up with *my* ‘ramp up’. That isn’t the average, and it isn’t the average for women across the board. *On average*, women take longer to heat up for sex. That’s a given. Not taking that extra bit of time to catch her up to him is often where the disconnect happens. My partner makes that extra effort to keep me in his loop during the day with a naughty text or a phone call where he’ll say something he’s going to do to me later. Sometimes he doesn’t even do that, but when we see each other, something he’ll say or do will light me up, and off we go. But the point is, he takes that little extra step to catch me up to his desire level and keep me thinking about sex as much as he is. We’re going on 2 years, and both keep wondering/kidding if things are going to taper off or slow down. We finally quit wondering and are just enjoying the ride.
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