“‘I’m perfectly fine with mediocre sex most of the time.’ … does mediocre to you mean you don’t get off?” Of course not. Not getting off would be bad sex, not mediocre.
“Mediocre sex … I’m trying and failing to picture that. Either it’s “nice” but … no climax. Or, there’s climax in whatever time frame or context, and that makes it fabulous.” Do you have no shades of gray at all? Picture orgasm quality on a scale of 0 to 10, where 0 is none, 1 is what you can get masturbating, and 10 is so awesome (in the literal sense) it induces catatonia or syncope (n.b. not mere sleep). In between, sex ranges from mediocre to good to great.
“All I can come up with for mediocre sex would be the first few, fumbling, clumsy, awkward times you have sex with a new partner.” The first few times do tend to be bad or mediocre because you haven’t learned yet what makes each other tick, though you still may sense a potential for greatness together. But you don’t have to be great every time or even most of the time; mediocre is enough to scratch the itch, to kick the ball down the street until you have time/energy for better.
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