Maybe it was my long work day, but I was exhausted after reading her post. “Down. Sit! Now stay.”
I’d love to know what the OP considers “a long time”. And if this email is any indication, I’d be wary of leaking financial information, too. Maybe he’s picking up on something we’re not privy to, such as being a little too eager to blend finances. She’s certainly too in his face about advancing the relationship – from her email the entire weight of that decision has been her doing, her prodding, her nudging. I’d dig my heels in, too. Maybe he’s just being really cautious before risking half his future earnings to what is at best a risky bet that they’ll stay married. I don’t think you can discount the current state of how the assets get divvied up in divorce for men as a major factor in their hesitancy to commit.

Go on the wedding trip OP, but back way, way off on the rushing to move in together. You’re pushing him, and no one ever feels happy about a decision they were pushed into.

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Angeline says:
June 8, 2011 at 9:52 pm


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