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Paula says:
September 29, 2011 at 12:26 am
I think I’m wired like Crotch Rocket, or if not wired that way, have become that way as a result of my experiences. It’s like Trouble described elsewhere, if there’s only one person involved, I can get too emotionally attached, whether or not that is a good idea. If it is a good idea, I know I can move to a one-person situation in due time. But if it’s a bad idea, I don’t want my need for sex or intimacy to compel me to choose someone who’s wrong for me.
Also, I tend to think that FWB situations tend to be more occasional than active anyway. Either you’re not involved because they’re out of town or one or both of you is too busy to maintain a relationship, or they drive you crazy too much to have them around all the time (which is why you’re not in a relationship with them.) If you’re not emotionally involved, you aren’t strongly compelled to be with them nearly as much.
