https://open.spotify.com/episode/2RBO26cyuZArW5iGvyVAex
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2NmFczbczhscTTPCVz6zSv
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4XHFlPfP1e7r1flXC6P5ag
https://open.spotify.com/episode/7sEDCNR2pQ03k3jeYM36jU
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4tH54tdyOKqJjuJZxvldIF
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6fQ9mFlOOg75sj5mX4K7Bo
https://open.spotify.com/episode/32e4qwAEaX7rRJRVbCgNcc
https://lowcal.org/?PeaceCanBringYouWomen
https://doc.unvanquished.net/s/W2wDu_g4k
https://pad.c3l.lu/s/IzZs3SdVA
https://edit.leiden.digital/s/O8qobJRs-


Her husband got this hot girl and amazing sex trumping the age difference.

I suspect the story of the meeting of her husband and the end of her prior relationship has been thoroughly vetted by her raltionalization hamster for the appropriate spin. It’s as much to convince her as anyone.

Badger
January 4, 2012 at 3:14 am
Athol has some very interesting thoughts, I hadn’t considered the husband as a rebound. Rebound + age pressure to get married = decisions made in haste => buyer’s remorse.

There is also the null hypothesis – that they are legitimately a happy in-love couple with compatible life goals, and that her attitude is a response to transient age anxiety and the temporary impact of her husband’s family situation. It is indeed hard to get a definite read from a five-minute conversation.

The Woman Formerly Known As Beautiful
January 5, 2012 at 6:22 pm
Hello Badge — the aging egg is an unfortunate problem for the older woman, younger man scenario. However, the advantage definitely shifts in favor of an older woman, younger man frisson later in life as women tend to outlive men by ten to fifteen years. This means I should be married to a 30 year old man. Unfortunately women my age tend to terrify younger men with the force of our voraciousness. Be warned laddie.