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We cannot tell if you do chance, but it is completely absurd to say nobody changes as an adult. There are endless examples of folks growing & changing in matters of maturity, habits, decency, taking care of health, professions &conduct in business, in their life goals, relationships, values, politics, priorities, wanting family…Sometimes they devolved, but often the improve. So zero rational cause to presume that the future with everyone will be just like the past. Just keep your eyes open & communicate continually & well.
And we might also have to think that both these people, in their own ways, were motivated (possibly too strongly) to lock it down, to secure the future before thinking hard about what it was actually going to be.
Sounds like she is a looker based on your description, and based on your previous post potentially insecure about again and her looks. So that might explain her motivation for locking it down,
Just speculating here, but the guy might be a greater beta type who really came into his own from say 16-18 to 22-23. Just my opinion, but I think greater beta type guys especially ones who really physically mature say during college actually tend to underestimate their SMV substantially. It is the exact opposite of the girls who are 5s who think they are 7-8s because a guy will ONS them. These are guys who on paper and outward appearance actually are attractive but maybe just haven’t been that successful from say 17-22, and at 22 they look nothing like 17.
